Father stunned by child support demands in custody battle
The StarPhoenix, Saskatoon, SK, By Lori Coolican, Saturday, October 14, 2006
A Saskatoon father who is battling with a Prince Albert couple for custody of
his five-month-old son got a shock this week in the form of a letter demanding
that he pay them child support. "Shame on them," Rick Fredrickson said in an
interview, after learning the couple who left a Saskatoon hospital with his
newborn son this spring -- while he desperately sought help asserting his
paternity and right to custody -- now wants access to his financial records in
order to calculate how much he should pay them for the child's care.
Fredrickson's former girlfriend didn't tell him she was pregnant after their
relationship ended last year. He found out in April, not long before his son was
born, when one of her relatives called to warn him she'd been telling people he
was the father and had already arranged a private adoption for the baby because
she didn't want to raise it herself. Fredrickson, who is now engaged to a
woman who can no longer have children of her own, immediately began approaching
government authorities to say he wanted his son. He was repeatedly told to get a
lawyer and seek a paternity test after the birth. The baby had already been
whisked from the hospital into the custody of the Prince Albert couple -- and
had already been given their last name -- by the time Fredrickson found out the
child had been born. Although a paternity test proved his fatherhood in July, he
still has not had a chance to hold his only child. At a family court hearing
on Oct. 4, a judge granted Fredrickson and his fiance, Barb Hesketh-Jones, a
weekly one-hour visit with the baby under supervision at a Prince Albert
facility. Arrangements were made for the first visit to take place this week,
but the couple who has custody of the baby cancelled the appointment and claimed
it was an inconvenient time for them, Hesketh-Jones said. No new date has been
set. The family court judge said Fredrickson's status as the baby's natural
father is "not a trump card" when it comes to winning custody, adding the Prince
Albert couple has spent five months bonding with the baby and that weighs in
their favour. He ordered a trial and promised an early pre-trial date to speed
up the process, but as of Friday no date had been set. Hesketh-Jones said
she's stunned the Prince Albert couple is demanding child support, especially
since they didn't raise the issue in court. Both she and Fredrickson have been
working multiple jobs to pay the legal bills and other costs associated with the
custody battle, including paying for a $2,500 "home assessment" to ensure they
can provide a suitable environment for the baby -- an assessment they passed
with fl ying colours, but which the well-off Prince Albert couple never had to
undergo. If his son's mother was the one asking for child support, he would
pay it immediately, Fredrickson said. "Last week, (their lawyer said) Rick was
a sperm donor," Hesketh-Jones said. "It gets more bizarre every day. Come hell
or high water, we will find the money to fight this." Two national advocacy
groups have taken an interest in Fredrickson's custody battle since it hit the
media last month. The case flies in the face of both the Canadian Charter of
Rights and Freedoms and the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child, both of
which talk about children's right to be raised by their biological parents
whenever possible, said Grant Wilson of the Canadian Children's Rights Council
in Ontario. Kris Titus, a board member of the Canadian arm of the
international advocacy group Fathers 4 Justice, is organizing a trip to
Saskatoon later this month to draw attention to the case. Titus hopes to set
up a trust fund to help Fredrickson and Hesketh-Jones with legal bills.
The StarPhoenix (Saskatoon) 2006
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